Topless vs. Lingerie Waitresses: Which One’s Right for Your Bucks Party?

Not sure which waitress style suits your vibe?

You’re planning a bucks party in Sydney. It’s probably one of the most anticipated nights of your mate’s life, and you want to get it just right. Not too tame, not too OTT. Just the right mix of cheeky entertainment and unforgettable fun.

But here’s the burning question: Should you go for a lingerie waitress or a topless waitress? Both bring the wow factor, but they each offer a different experience. And if you’re the one in charge of the planning (and let’s face it, the blame if things fall flat), it’s worth knowing what you’re signing up for.

Let’s break it down so you can make the call that’ll earn you the party-planner crown.

Event atmosphere: classy or wild?

Let’s start with the overall vibe. What kind of energy do you want the night to have?

Lingerie waitresses set a sultry, flirtatious tone. They’re dressed in elegant lingerie: think lace, silk, and stockings. It’s sexy without being too full-on, which makes it a great option if the groom’s a bit shy, you’ve got a mixed-age group, or you just want to keep things tasteful (but still a little bit naughty). Ideal for indoor venues, poker nights, or classy pre-drinks before hitting the clubs.

Topless waitresses, on the other hand, turn the heat up a notch. There’s a bit more skin, a bit more cheek, and usually a lot more noise. They’re perfect for rowdy crowds, beachside house parties, or boats full of mates ready to party. If the goal is to let loose and laugh out loud, topless waitresses bring that energy.

Want to compare the options visually? Check out our topless waitresses and Lingerie Waitresses pages.

Guest preferences: who’s coming?

Next up, your guest list. Who’s in the crew, and what’s their comfort zone?

If it’s a tight-knit group of blokes who’ve been mates for years, chances are topless waitresses will be a hit. The relaxed, unfiltered vibe suits that dynamic. But if you’ve got more conservative mates, older family members, or even some bridesmaids making an appearance (hey, it happens), lingerie waitresses might be the safer bet.

Think of it like curating a playlist: it’s not about what you like, it’s about what sets the right tone for everyone.

Still unsure? A hybrid option is always on the table—start the night with lingerie service, then bring in the topless energy as the party ramps up.

Budget and customisation

Let’s talk dollars. Naturally, topless waitresses tend to be slightly more expensive than lingerie waitresses, simply due to the level of entertainment and demand.

But here’s the thing: Bombshells gives you complete control over your booking, regardless of your budget.

• Want to book for two hours but keep your options open for longer? Easy.
• Want to add lap dances or a private show later in the night? You got it.
• Need help finding the right combo of waitresses, strippers, and venue options? Done.

You’ll get a personal concierge service that handles your booking from start to finish, including a 24-hour confirmation window, late-night customer support, and upgrade options on the day.

Whether you’re balling out or keeping it simple, we’ve got a package that’ll fit. Start customising your bucks party here.

Pairing with other entertainment

Topless or lingerie waitresses are often just the beginning. Want to go bigger?

• Pair a lingerie waitress with a poker night or cocktail-making class for a laidback yet luxurious feel.
• Add a topless waitress to a wild bucks boat cruise, then bring in a male or female stripper for the main event.

Yes, you can absolutely book male performers too. Bombshells caters to every type of party crew, whether it’s the boys, the girls, or a mix of both.